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Joel Albert Kalpram
Joel Albert Kalpram
What will be my approach to this Situation ???
About this event: Young Leaders Conference
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Hello everyone

I just wanna post somthing here regarding a small situation im facing difficulty in.

Would like anyone to help with ideas and or comments on what would be my best approach to these young group of guys.

The other day i was in my office and there's this young group of boys hagning around outside the office... at that time, i was with my cousine..a girl and the whole time they were calling her and beconing on her to go and see them...No idea who they are and where they are from..

then one of them kinna saw me walking pass into one of the other room. suddenly one of them said somthing that really gets me...,i got really heat up and told them off and of why they called me such discrimitve name.
They told me they'were'nt swearing at me and everytime since then..if i go pass..on my walk to work or going out of work to go somwhere...they'll say somthing funny and kinna like talking about me...and making fun of me

The point here is..i dont want it to become an issues which i think can really be bad.

What will be my solution to this?

I really need help with information to how i will handle this small situatiuon in a more better way and in good manner .

Please responce, very looking forward to hearing from anyone

Cheers


Joel :)


July 13, 2006 | 1:28 AM Comments  1 comments

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Rerenga Rerenga
July 20, 2006 | 2:52 AM

Oh woah Jo-el, what a crappy situation...just reading about it makes me wanna give those guys an 'earfull' and a half...of course that would be going against my nature though... :P But what a bunch of...grrrrrr...

I'm surprised you didn't mention it while we were chatting :).

But anyways, something may have already come to pass (I'm just looking at the date you posted this!), but I'll put my 5 cents in...

I can only think to confront them and ask them why they're calling you whatever they're calling you...
And if they deny, then take them for their word - no matter how much you know they may be lying! - and just let it go.
Then ask them how their day is and how it's going and what are they're doing there and if you can help them with anything...y'know, be totally nice and kind - be you as you normally are! - and it'll hopefully throw them off...they probably wouldn't expect you to be kind after their treatment...

EXAMPLE

You: Hey, why are you guys calling me that?

Them: We're not!

You: [Look at them for a sec then shrug your shoulders] Ok then. [Then blind them with a smile and a touch of indifference in your voice like you couldn't care less anyway] So, how's your guys day been? Can I help you guys with anything?

Them: What?!

Well that's how I'd hope it would turn out...but if it doesn't...then...improvise like anything! Just keep in mind that they can't get you down unless you let them...and yeah, I know...easier said than done huh?

Let me know where that situation is at anyways Jodoz. :)

Arohanui,

- Rerenga
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